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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Treebore" data-source="post: 2890267" data-attributes="member: 10177">I pretty much agree that this sounds like a no win situation if she doesn't like/love you in the same manner. Then again she just may not know herself well enough to know true love when it hits her. She may have an unrealistic idealized idea of what true lov is. So ask her what she thinks true love is, how she will know it when she shee's it. If she has a solid relaistic idea of everything, then you are just a friend. If she really doesn't have any solid idea, then she might actually love you and just not know it because she doesn't recognize it.All I can say is the love of my life is my best friend, the one I prefer being around the most, and the one I trust the most. Fortunately she feels the same about me and we are working our way towards our 16th anniversary with no end in sight.Sounds like she likes being around you a lot, if not the most, and trusts you more then most, or maybe anyone else. So maybe she does have feelings for you, but doesn't understand her feelings/emotions enough to understand their meaning.So talk to her. Be honest. Let her know you think you love her and you want to explore the feelings you have for each other. If she can't talk to you about them, or she does and it becomes clear that you are the eternal "brother" to her, then move on emotionally to someone else. Just be tough enough to keep being her friend for as long as she deserves it.</blockquote>

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