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<blockquote data-quote="Treebore" data-source="post: 2891698" data-attributes="member: 10177">I can tell you how to make your life stable, and I know it works. Stabilize yourself first, then build upon that. You have to be your own &quot;rock of Gibraltor&quot; because until you find the one &quot;meant for you&quot; your the only one you can rely on. Once you get comfortable with being reliant on yourself then you can know what to look for in others. It is all part of your &quot;personal growth&quot;. Most people never learn to rely on themselves. They always need someone else to validate them. Many never even realize how they don't like doing anything until someone else tells them it is OK, its a good idea.So learn to rely on yourself. Trust your own judgement. Understand your going to make mistakes, but that your going to learn from them and handle things better the next time. You'll never be perfect, but you'll get a lot closer than you think you can.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Treebore, post: 2891698, member: 10177"] I can tell you how to make your life stable, and I know it works. Stabilize yourself first, then build upon that. You have to be your own "rock of Gibraltor" because until you find the one "meant for you" your the only one you can rely on. Once you get comfortable with being reliant on yourself then you can know what to look for in others. It is all part of your "personal growth". Most people never learn to rely on themselves. They always need someone else to validate them. Many never even realize how they don't like doing anything until someone else tells them it is OK, its a good idea. So learn to rely on yourself. Trust your own judgement. Understand your going to make mistakes, but that your going to learn from them and handle things better the next time. You'll never be perfect, but you'll get a lot closer than you think you can. [/QUOTE]

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