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<blockquote data-quote="Pielorinho" data-source="post: 2893758" data-attributes="member: 259">Her name's not TJ or Michelle, is it?&nbsp; Nine years ago, I was in exactly your place (well, not exactly--I was living with her ex, who was twice her age and moping around the house singing &quot;Don't Stand So Close to Me&quot; and glaring daggers at me).&nbsp; It ended poorly--and I didn't even get much good booty out of it.&nbsp; Afterward she moved to Michigan.&nbsp; If ever there was a relationship I regretted, it was that one. But I still don't regret it, because other than a month of weepy self-pitying, it didn't really do me any damage.&nbsp; I got on with life.Teflon's advice is great for the most part, but I think he's being a little melodramatic with the whole business about this situation having the potential to destroy you.&nbsp; It's not gonna destroy you.&nbsp; Even if you choose badly, and you move in with her and have sex with her and then find out that she's fallen for another guy, you'll get over it.A question for those wiser in the ways of love:&nbsp; would it be a terrible idea to ask for Kay's collusion in finding some sweet young thing for tUS to date?&nbsp; When I started dating seriously, an ex-girlfriend whom I still carried a torch for was invaluable in giving me dating advice.Daniel</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Pielorinho, post: 2893758, member: 259"] Her name's not TJ or Michelle, is it? Nine years ago, I was in exactly your place (well, not exactly--I was living with her ex, who was twice her age and moping around the house singing "Don't Stand So Close to Me" and glaring daggers at me). It ended poorly--and I didn't even get much good booty out of it. Afterward she moved to Michigan. If ever there was a relationship I regretted, it was that one. But I still don't regret it, because other than a month of weepy self-pitying, it didn't really do me any damage. I got on with life. [b]Teflon's[/b] advice is great for the most part, but I think he's being a little melodramatic with the whole business about this situation having the potential to destroy you. It's not gonna destroy you. Even if you choose badly, and you move in with her and have sex with her and then find out that she's fallen for another guy, you'll get over it. A question for those wiser in the ways of love: would it be a terrible idea to ask for Kay's collusion in finding some sweet young thing for tUS to date? When I started dating seriously, an ex-girlfriend whom I still carried a torch for was invaluable in giving me dating advice. Daniel [/QUOTE]

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