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Message: <blockquote data-quote="TheUnknownSoul" data-source="post: 2901980" data-attributes="member: 41374">I'm glad to see this things still alive and kicking!First Off: Not much news on the Kay front. Aside from some IM and phone conversation (mostly on pleasant, unrelated topics) we've been busy with the rest of our lives. Secondly: (addressing TB/DJ "why I can't meet girls" threads) I can honestly say I'm glad I never got into the "why doesn't the world understand me" mindset. I bathe. I'm overweight without being obese (and I've dropped 30 pounds in the last year, still working on more). I dress well. I'm socialable, but not terribly outgoing. I've probably got some damn annoying character traits (opinionated is probably the first one) but overall I realize the world doesn't revolve around me and that if things aren't going my way, I'm the one who needs to re-evalutate and take stock, not the world.Thirdly: (Addressing Josh Randell) Thats what got this whole ball rolling. Back in April, I finally told her what I felt. About her. The party. Everything. I avoided the three L's (Love, Lust, Loneliness) but told her the rest. Since then, I've gotten the "no feelings/just friends" statements, intermixed with occasionally "leading" comments or actions. Not surprisingly, some of them contradict each other (I was the first boy she brought home her parents liked, but later her parents have liked all her "friends", just not her "boyfriends". Grrr). Since April, almost everytime we got together (in person, not talking on the phone, email or IM) the topic has come up again. Hell, the topic came up 1/2 hour BEFORE the infamous goodnight kiss(es). Hence my original conundrum. The original aspect of this post was "Is she leading me on or just playing", but I think there is much more complexity than that to it. If she's leading me on, she's doing it a.) to keep me wrapped or b.) Unconsciously. Possibly c.) She's testing the water, but afraid to dive in. I guess d.) All of the above could be true also. Time will settle the dust back, so that emotions/hormones won't cloud judgements. Then, when the time is right (and there is no point in pushing this before its time) there will be one, final discussion. Hopefully, that will end this saga and we will get on with our lives, either together or seperately. I don't think that will be today, or tomorrow. But it will be soon, I can sense that.Again, thanks for the help, concern, criticism and everything else that has lead me up to this point. [cartman] I love you guys [/cartman]</blockquote>

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