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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Tequila Sunrise" data-source="post: 2912204" data-attributes="member: 40398">Something that I learned recently from my last girlfriend is that women have different attractions than men do. While men are more or less attracted to any female, women are inexplicably attracted to only certain men! There's no ryhme or reason to which men they are attracted to (though I've heard about scientists researching human pheremones and how they relate to this topic); in my experience, the great girls are attracted to the fewest guys."Men fall in love to get laid; love is an end in itself. Women fall in love for an individual purpose; love is a means to an end."As to the 'friends with benefits' thing, I don't have any personal experience with it, even indirectly. I will say that if you in the end decide to not stop hanging out with her, you might as well get those benefits, seeing as how you're already emotionally attached to her. And who knows, maybe getting her laid will help her become emotionally attached to you.One thing that I can definitively tell you is a trait that is common to all successful people (in relationships and out): 'Give it a shot; and if it doesn't work out, try something new.' I'm not saying that this is easy (not least of all for me; I'm terrified of rejection), but it's the one tried and true method to success.</blockquote>