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Message: <blockquote data-quote="TheUnknownSoul" data-source="post: 2942872" data-attributes="member: 41374">I guess the problem is I haven't been making exceptions for 3 years solid. Looking back, I realize its been this way for a long time, but I was too stubborn/stupid to realize. All the hints were there, but I was SO determined to win her over, I ignored them. It came to this, which is sad, because it might have hurt our friendship. I'm not saying its my fault; there were PLENTY of mixed signals (hence this thread). Kay might even have feelings for me, but she is sure as hell not going to share them pr even admit them. Not now, maybe not ever. I'm 27 years old, I can't wait forever on a girl who MIGHT one day realize what a good guy I am. I need to start looking elsewhere also. I'm not going to stop being her friend. I'll always be close with her and I'd do anything to help her. She has demons she needs to exorcise out before she can/will open up completely to anyone. That may be 2 years or 20 years in the future. I don't know, but I know I can't keep waiting for a vain hope she'll change her mind. I'm off to meet some new people somehow. Be more receptive to new experiences. Get my life together. Maybe even strike out on my own sometime. If I meet someone new, I'm blessed for that. If she realizes she make a grievious error and changes her mind, we'll see where that goes too. But I'm not going to blind myself with false hope.</blockquote>