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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Wulf Ratbane" data-source="post: 4602750" data-attributes="member: 94">No, I'm not ignoring anything. It doesn't matter what side of the screen the person is sitting on: you need to be willing to put in the same amount of effort trying to form, nurture, and value social relationships as you do trying to form, nurture, and value your game world or your character.There are lots of gamers like that. Too many.I realize I may be unfairly lumping Kzach into that group-- I have no frame of reference other than his posts in this thread; those posts have provided ample indication that he may be a problem. If he introduced himself to my gaming group in the style he's exhibited in this thread, I would have concerns.And if he came to me and told me that he didn't have any long-term gaming buddies, after he just finished telling me he didn't have the time to be diplomatic to other players, the concern level increases. If Kzach invested more time in diplomacy, perhaps he wouldn't be game-hopping. A new group of folks you don't know well is not the time to set forth the conditions under which you will deign to grace them with your presence. He should be spending less time on game prep and more time on diplomacy. He has it exactly backwards.I'm perfectly aware that I'm making gross generalizations; that's part of the skill set of being a good judge of character.</blockquote>