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<blockquote data-quote="Hussar" data-source="post: 6099616" data-attributes="member: 22779"><p>The problem here is that you are assuming a special needs player.</p><p></p><p>Instead, today, I don't really feel like having a mushroom pizza and just would like not to have mushroom pizza rammed down my throat, if that's okay with you. I might feel like mushroom pizza tomorrow, but, right now? Sorry, not loving the mushroom pizza. I know we all really want that deluxe pizza though. We have been talking about that deluxe pizza all week and we REALLY want that deluxe pizza.</p><p></p><p>So, please, can we skip the mushroom pizza, just this once, and get to the deluxe pizza? </p><p></p><p>But, for some reason, compromise seems to mean, "shut yer gob and eat the damn pizza" and any complaints automatically place the player in the "problem player" category. </p><p></p><p>A player should never feel obligated to eating anything he doesn't like, just to make the other players happy. If he chooses to do so, fine and dandy. But, as soon as you're telling that player that he has to go along or he's a "problem player" then I strongly disagree and feel that it's more of a "problem DM" issue.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hussar, post: 6099616, member: 22779"] The problem here is that you are assuming a special needs player. Instead, today, I don't really feel like having a mushroom pizza and just would like not to have mushroom pizza rammed down my throat, if that's okay with you. I might feel like mushroom pizza tomorrow, but, right now? Sorry, not loving the mushroom pizza. I know we all really want that deluxe pizza though. We have been talking about that deluxe pizza all week and we REALLY want that deluxe pizza. So, please, can we skip the mushroom pizza, just this once, and get to the deluxe pizza? But, for some reason, compromise seems to mean, "shut yer gob and eat the damn pizza" and any complaints automatically place the player in the "problem player" category. A player should never feel obligated to eating anything he doesn't like, just to make the other players happy. If he chooses to do so, fine and dandy. But, as soon as you're telling that player that he has to go along or he's a "problem player" then I strongly disagree and feel that it's more of a "problem DM" issue. [/QUOTE]
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