I'm A Banana
Potassium-Rich
How do you define a jerk?
Someone it is not fun to be around.
I am a little surprised that anyone has to define this.
At my gaming table, the top household income is over 300K and the bottom is up to 40K after a period of unemployment. Is the top guy a jerk if he buys a case of cards?
It depends, are they fun to be around?
Buying a case of cards if someone else at your table can certainly count as "being a jerk," since you've just given your unemployed friend a painful reminder of a big problem in their lives every time you slap down a card.
It could also not count as being a jerk, if no one cares, or you buy enough for everyone, or whatever.
Whether or not you're a jerk depends on other people's perception of you and I just realized I'm explaining basic social norms on an internet message board so I am going to stop before I go all wahooni-shaped.