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And any song about the stomping out of all human diversity and individual thought is frightening and disturbing.
It was a different time in 1971.
And any song about the stomping out of all human diversity and individual thought is frightening and disturbing.
It was a different time in 1971.
There is definitely a Yoko Ono joke in this thread somewhere...
It was a different time in 1971.
Yeah, this is a slow motion car wreck.
I'm a DM that is currently running a 3.5/homebrew campaign with four players. I've got a player who is heavily religious(christian). Let's call him Jake.
Jane is heavily religious also, you see, and she is the type of person who would NOT keep her religion and the game separate(to the point of asking if God is an available deity).
This being established, she has conditions like "keeping the game PG," essentially meaning that she doesn't want us to curse or mention sex. I don't necessarily run a lewd or vulgar campaign; but am I really supposed to stop the battle-weary NPC dwarf from explaining that "Those damned drow killed my party!"? Should I really try to censor the lecherous half-elf PC from making a comment about a barmaid's cleavage?
I sympathize regarding the issue of religious gamers because I am one. The issue is complicated because a religion will identify certain moral absolutes, but each person who is a believer will also have an individual temperment. For example, the health of a person's prayer life and the amount of time they devote to the study of sacred texts is not necessarily connected to whether they drink alcohol, smoke stogies or habitually speak in a loud and strident manner. You might have a timid backslider or a raucous saint.
Some of the issues might actually be issues of temperment. For example, my EPT group contains those who habitually use invective and those who rarely (or in one case never) do; some who espouse dangerously erroneous religious and political views and others who are right-thinking and just. But we're all of the appropriate temperment to get along... and there have been a few who were of incompatible temperment who sadly ended up departing our company voluntarily. I would have preferred if they stayed (though there's 8 in the group including me, so we're not in any trouble) but that's how it goes sometimes.
A person might have made a prudential judgment to avoid the society of people who do X or Y; that could be a purely rational judgment unrelated to their temperment. So it won't do to be dismissive in any case.
I suppose the bottom line is that if you feel that you or your group engage in disreputable behavior, now is an opportunity to shape up. But if you behave in a reputable fashion, as reasonable adults, then you're not really bound to change much to accomodate this newcomer (regardless of the merits of her theological ideas). If your group behaves reasonably then it's up to this girl to decide if she likes the group enough to deal with your foibles (whatever those happen to be; we all have them). If she is presented with a reasonable environment in which to socialize and decides that it isn't what she's looking for, then that's OK for her.
Beatles bashing, OMG, edition wars will pale compared to this
then ask them there opinoin.
then reviel that these lyrics are from a song from John Lennon.
and ask them if this makes him a evil person.