I can sympathize with the Canadians. I used to live in New Mexico, the US State. I don't know if they still do, but New Mexico Monthly used to have a section, every month, called "Once of our Fifty is Missing," describing such things as people thinking you need a passport to visit New Mexico, that you need to take a boat, that you need to know Spanish, etc. My favorite was the US Army surveyors map that somehow managed to omit New Mexico, distorting the map and passing out slivers of land here and there to make it work.
I was born in Arkansas. I'm pretty tired of marrying your cousins jokes. That is actually, and always has been, untrue of Arkansas. If you want to marry your cousin, you must cross the border, to Texas.