OP here, thanks for the warm welcomes.
Whew! I thought 2 things when I clicked the Submit button:
1) My thread will be ignored or buried, or
2) Flame wars will ensue.
Thank you for dashing my fears
It's great to hear that there are other D&D fans who are just like me, serious about the game, but too busy to run the complexities of higher level 3e games. I had a feeling there were a bunch out there like me, which is why I opened my mouth in the first place.
To answer a quick question, I own probably a dozen 3/3.5 books and my gaming groups has bought a half dozen more between all of us. I would have bought more, but at a certain point, you realize that "I'm never going to use this stuff", especially when all your campaigns die before 10th level. Typically buying a new source book is what gets us BACK playing, albeit with a new campaign at level 1. "Hey, this looks cool... let's try D&D again!"
I want to say that I totally understand why some people hate 4e. If you have the time and love crunching numbers, then 3e is a great system. Skill checks, feats, unified XP chart, "higher is always better", etc are all fantastic improvements over previous editions.
A lot of 4e complaints have nothing to do with the gripes that I've listed (Golden Wyvern, ex.). It might be be possible to fix 3e without the dramatic changes that WotC has proposed. Maybe they are throwing out the baby with the bath water.
However, since they are aiming to fix the major problems that most time limited player agrees with, I choose to trust that their other decisions wont be horrible. I'm just glad to hear that there are others who agree.
For those who love 3e, as is, it must be frustrating to feel like you're being "left behind", especially when your dedication probably included hundreds of $$ on source books, etc. Unfortunately, WotC must feel that there aren't enough players of that nature to sustain or grow the business where they want it to go. Capitalism? Corporate greed? Or are they simply trying to make a game that more people can enjoy? Perhaps they are one in the same.