RUMBLETiGER
Adventurer
Can't you just quote the RAW and be done with it? PHB, page one hundred something, just a few pages after 100 if I recall correctly.Yes, that's true, but our argument addresses the core definition, which is what we've been rambling about for a while.
To return to the OP, a deity may be more likely to reward a mortal for loyalty and suffering than "appologize", which in my mind the only difference if if the deity claims some sort of responsability for the mortal's suffering and indecates some form of regret.