Hussar
Legend
Frankly, I don't mind that. My fighter character isn't competing with my friend's wizard character. He does what he does, I do what I do.
And that's a great attitude and I mean that. But, do you not see how some people might not see it that way? When my fighter is doing 25 points of damage to a single target, while the cleric walks up and vaporizes four others, is it unreasonable to feel a bit like a third wheel? When, in every non-combat encounter, the fighter is standing in the corner picking his nose while the cleric and wizard do all the talking, charming, detecting lies and whatnot? Whenever a mystery crops up, the casters pop out a bunch of spells to solve the mystery, while the fighter stands around doing nothing?
Do you really not see why some people might have an issue here?