Don't get offended, but I thinking that seeking anyone out as a potential mate with gaming as a requirement (or even an interest, really) needs help. Go out in the real world and live a little. Don't look for a significant other base on their hobbies. Variety, and learning new things, is the spice of life. I have a beautiful girlfriend of several years who shares basically no hobbies, and not really any musical interest, and we get along great and compliment each other. You should never put requirements or conditions on affairs of the heart.