FitzTheRuke
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Why is that? Grognards have been defined to include pretty much all older gamers who are fans of early TSR games. Of which I am one. Just because others insist on using it as a pejorative against others, doesn't mean it actually is one. Your post is reading like someone would never willingly admit to being one, reaffirming that it's a bad thing to be one. I don't know if that's your intent, but if so, it sort of reinforces my point.
As an aside, I don't think I'm a huge fan of the idea that the offended is in the wrong for being offended (including "why would you be one of those people?"), rather than the person doing the offending generalizations.
No, you're right. I've only ever heard it used in a way that suggested that the word's very meaning was not speaking of old-school gamers, but intolerant, gatekeepering old-school gamers. I had no idea that anyone thought of it as referring only to the former. (Earlier, it struck me as if someone spoke badly of a "neck-beard" and I got offended because I have a beard, so therefore they must be talking about me!)
I stand corrected! You are a grognard! And that is okay! Good even!
I wouldn't say that I ever think that the offended is wrong for being offended! Not at all! No - it's that, while being offended, if you lash out at those who offended you (or worse, innocent bystanders) than how are you better than the first guy? (I am not saying that you did this, only that I felt you were in danger of coming close to it, hence my original comment.)
At any rate, as I said in the post that started this exchange - you were certainly right. (And now that I have more context for your feelings on the subject, likely justified).