FormerlyHemlock
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Sorry, having read the other thread I needed to put a little levity into your small typo.
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Sorry, having read the other thread I needed to put a little levity into your small typo.
I'd go so far as to say that it is extremely rude to expect a sidelined character to stay at the table. Their time doesn't belong to the group. If they aren't involved in the game, why should they hang around and...not be allowed to participate in the group activity they came for?
If it's a short thing, sure, they should stick around, but if it's going to be the rest of the session, or multiple hours, anyway, yeah...they should only stick around if doing so isn't boring for them.
I can't give this response enough XP. Asking a player whose PC has been killed off to sit around for what may be hours and observe is far more rude than leaving because they have nothing else to do in the game.
Not to derail things, but it's part of the DM's job to engage the players. Even when a PC has been killed off. Others have said to let them play monsters and NPCs. I'm cool with that. But I also give the option of immediately rolling up a new PC. And I'll shoehorn them in as soon as they're done, regardless of where the party currently is/was when death happened. Scenarios I have used to introduce fresh characters:
1) The old "Prisoner in a Dungeon Cell" trick.
2) The old "Enemy Turncoat" Trick. This one is great for role playing, by the way. Instant Drama Injection!
3) The old "Stranger Drops Through A Portal" trick.
4) The old "Adventurer Jr./the 3rd/the 4th, etc" trick
This is TTRPG and the goal is fun for everyone. And like it or not, the DMs Great Power comes with Great Responsibility; make it easier for everyone to enjoy the game.
I'd go so far as to say that it is extremely rude to expect a sidelined character to stay at the table. Their time doesn't belong to the group. If they aren't involved in the game, why should they hang around and...not be allowed to participate in the group activity they came for?
If it's a short thing, sure, they should stick around, but if it's going to be the rest of the session, or multiple hours, anyway, yeah...they should only stick around if doing so isn't boring for them.
Assume that a player has been sidelined with nothing to do for an extended period. (His PC is out of commission, or the party is split, and the DM isn't involving the player in some other way.)
If the player excuses himself from the game session to e.g. go watch a movie with his girlfriend, is that player being rude?
If you pick "Depends," please explain your vote in a comment.