recentcoin said:
I'd allow it. How about a Paladin devoted to a fertility goddess? While I agree that it might not be suitable for a game with children, since when the the whole dang world have to be "child-proofed"?
I'm going to clue you folks in on a basic tenet of human nature. Everyone has vices. No one is perfect - I don't care what oath you took. The man who doesn't admit his vices is the priest who molests children, the nurse who murders her patients, the serial killer who keeps tasty tokens in his freezer. I'd much rather trust a man who admits he drinks, plays poker, and chases the girls around the brothel. I'd certianly trust him before I'd trust the young self-riteous pip that came to find him.
Point one - he's not forced the girls in any way and in fact the statement was made that he need not pay. He's chosen to pay since that is their profession.
Point two - He doesn't appear to be married so he's probably not doing anything that would be termed a technical violation of his vows since chastity doesn't seem to be a requirement.
Ancient cults of fertility promoted sex because they were interested in all aspects of expanded life for the tribe -- particularly children and crops.
I would rule that if a fertility goddess was sponsoring a priest, that priest had better have at least twenty viable children, expected to live to adulthood, and at least one hundred children who miscarried, were stillborn, or died as infants.
Of course, once you bring children into it, huge problems arise. Obviously it would be harder to play a fertility priestess with numerous children and frequent pregnancies, and issues like infant mortality rate become relevant.
Of course, there were also numerous heresies and small cults in the ancient and medieval eras, which does not square well with D&D's gods, who could use their supernatural powers to wipe out or gently correct heresies.
Rystil Arden said:
Pan was the god of shepherds, hunting, and rustic music, not lust. Priapus (who was Greek as well, though also identified with the similarly 'endowed' Egyptian god Min in some works and findings that I saw in archaeological museums in Turkey) was a very lusty fellow, known for his lust for the Nymph Lotis that almost led to a successful rape but was discovered and thwarted due to a donkey braying, but he was a god of the fertility of vegetable crops (His statue was set-up in vegetable plots to promote garden fertility but doubled as a "scarecrow" to keep away birds). All the male Greek gods were lusty at some time or another, but that does not make them gods of lust
Also social class and rural/urban position affected sexual mores strongly in the classical world. City-dwellers and the rich were more likely to see sex as an avenue for individual pleasure, whereas the rural and the lower classes were more likely to criticize sex as means of fun. Of course, it was the rich who got to write the books, so the surviving literature is easy to misinterpret.
According to Hubbard's Homosexuality in Ancient Greece and Rome (p.14):
There was, in fact, no more consensus about homosexuality in ancient Greece and Rome than there is today. ... sexual dissidence was a flash point of ideological contention. In Greece, suspicion of homosexual relations of any sort seems most pronounced in those genres of discourse that are designed to appeal to the masses' resentment of sociopolitical elites...
The rich were typically the only ancients who could afford an exotic sex life. The poor did not have time or resources, so they could not have justified indulgence even if they had been inclined to do so. In societies so close to tribalism, considerable justification would have been necessary. These were essentially tribal civilizations, one step advanced from the taboos of a truly primitive tribe.