Bedrockgames
Legend
There is, strangely, a rather wide chasm between "We should trust that they feel what they feel and we are not in a position to argue otherwise." and "They're a bunch of whiny babies."
I have no idea why there would be such a difference between these positions though.
Also, your continued mischaracterization of the situation is annoying. In case my sarcastic tone was unclear.
I was giving my reaction of an account of the situation that I had just been pointed to. And that fed into some points about a broader discussion over gaming community issues. All I was saying about it was that particular moment raised my suspicions and it just seemed an odd reaction to me. It doesn’t mean I think the account is flat wrong. The account by the GM also has things in it that raise my suspicions. My view of this stuff is it can take time to weigh and consider conflicting accounts. I doubt there is any deliberate deception here but people do often focus on the things they want to see, read situations differently, etc.
also if you think I have mischaracterized something feel free to point it out. There is a lot of information in the story and totally possible I got something wrong.