As others have said, the same stylizations you claim to be anime-only have appeared in a LOT of western stuff. The problem with saying "Anime is this, western animation is that" is that the lines are blurred. You can say Avatar was "anime," but it wasn't. And you can say Monster is a western animated show, but it's not.
But the big, big problem, and the reason why so many people :| at "I hate anime" or, the much, much worse phrase, "that's too anime," is this.
Anime isn't a genre.
That's why if I ever hear someone say "That's too anime" regarding game mechanics, I can safetly ignore them as being ignorant and full of it. It's the equivilant of opening the 4e PHB, looking at the elf, and going "Oh god that's just too literature for me." Imagine how bizarro that would sound. "That's just too literature for me." You'd say...well, possibly some rather impolite things. But you'd be THINKING "How can something be too literature? Literature isn't a genre! It's a medium! ANYTHING can be in literature!" How many people here sigh and palm -> face when they hear someone say "I hate books?"
But the big, big problem, and the reason why so many people :| at "I hate anime" or, the much, much worse phrase, "that's too anime," is this.
Anime isn't a genre.
That's why if I ever hear someone say "That's too anime" regarding game mechanics, I can safetly ignore them as being ignorant and full of it. It's the equivilant of opening the 4e PHB, looking at the elf, and going "Oh god that's just too literature for me." Imagine how bizarro that would sound. "That's just too literature for me." You'd say...well, possibly some rather impolite things. But you'd be THINKING "How can something be too literature? Literature isn't a genre! It's a medium! ANYTHING can be in literature!" How many people here sigh and palm -> face when they hear someone say "I hate books?"