Guys, first of all thanks to all of you for keeping it civil and within the rules. It goes to show what a good community this is.
I am going to disagree. Boycotting a store is not overreacting. It really depends on the cause which they are supporting. If you give your money to a store that money will help the business become successful and that business will be better able to support political issues which they think to be right which you may not. Now we can't get into specifics but it really depends on the cause which they are supporting.
I might not care what a store owner does in his spare time (or store employees for that matter), but I do care where the money I spend at a store flows. If I can can expect that it's going to flow to a political cause I detest, perhaps one that affects my family or people I care for in a negative way, my money's going elsewhere. I may not be able to stop all of my money flowing in that direction because not all businesses will be up front about the causes they support, but I can cut out the most likely channels for it that I can identify.
Yes to those two statements. Being familiar with small business retail, I know that a retailer's charitable/advocacy contributions generally come out of the profits (if there are any); the more profitable an establishment, theoretically the more the establishment as an entity or the proprietor as an individual has to support these causes. So my money might indirectly go to something I don't support. Now, that could happen anywhere... but if the store is advertising an affiliation, then I think one can at least argue that by consenting to be a patron, I'm buying in on some level to the affiliation. Especially if I have other purchasing options, especially if I can get the exact same product elsewhere (in this case, other similar stores or Amazon).
The other thing is that oftentimes in politics the issue is not the issue. What I mean by that is that what is at stake can be much more far-reaching than one simple practical matter.
Since we're into fantasy, take the following example: in the land of Giloola, there are two parties. The Fliboolians, who among whatever else they support or reject (free bus rides for battle robots, emissions testing on dragon-rockets, etc.), support the construction of a roto-disk arena on the island of Groff. However, the other party, the Quorians, insist that since the Totem-Obelisk of Barzak, around which the whole capital city is constructed, forbids any Giloolan from setting foot on Groff, a roto-disk arena is out of the question. After all, is Giloolan society based upon the tenets of the Totem-Obelisk of Barzak, or isn't it?
That last coda is the crux. In the above example, the issue (the roto-disk arena)
isn't the issue. The issue is really about the source of political and moral authority in the society. And
that is a basis for extreme contention, because it gets down to the very heart of why those people do what they do and live as they live.