Tequila Sunrise
Adventurer
No, I don't think you're an exception to the rule either. Most players I know don't have any strong feelings about recent 4e materials.The "self-loathing" comments surprise me. Personally, I've REALLY enjoyed the stuff that's come out for 4e since the Essentials books, with the only exception being Heroes of Shadow. I love the Monster Vault, I love Madness at Gardmore Abbey, I love Heroes of the Feywild, and I love Reavers of Harkenwold. I really like the new class options we got it Heroes of the Fallen Lands and Heroes of the Forgotten Kingdoms.
I don't think I'm an exception to the rule among 4e fans here. Sure, some folks didn't like a perceived "half edition" with Essentials, and I agree that Heroes of Shadow has taken some hits. But what about all of those other products?
Don't get me wrong; I'm quite interested in D&D Next. But in the mean time, I'm enjoying 4e tremendously.
Personally I don't like the Essentials class paradigm. Partly because 'Essentials' is a gross misnomer, partly because I don't like the retro attitude and partly because deep down I just don't trust them to be balanced. (I've seen some of them in play and I know they're not 3e-crazy-unbalanced, but still.)
So I mostly stopped paying attention to new releases after it became clear that WotC's romance with retro design is more than a fling. I do like the MV though.