For me, I don't want to get into 3E stack city.
You're clear about what kind of play you do and don't want. That general principle can guide a lot of choices. Players at your table might be free to propose particular exceptions - as long as those exceptions don't lead the table back to Stack City.
That principle seems implicit in the PHB itself. I'm questioning how well the PHB (as written) is consistent with that principle, and how well it holds up when PCs have a valid reason to bring *every resource they can bring to bear* on a task which is, to the PCs, the most important thing in the world... because I want a game in which what makes sense for the players to choose, and what makes sense for the PCs to choose, are closely aligned.
I think Resistance and Bless could stack, without catastrophic reversion to 3E Stack City, and thus a party could have good reason to have casters maintaining both, but that's my theory and not yet tested in actual game-play.
On another hand, a crowd of Lore Bards, stacking Cutting Words to negate *all* the damage from a Meteor Swarm, is an event which I consider so awesome that I *want* the rules to support that possibility.
To pick up on an oft-discussed-elsewhere example, I want Gandalf to have a compelling reason NOT to ride an eagle into Mordor until the Ring has been destroyed. (I think those reasons already exist in LotR, in the form of Nazguls on flying mounts, but again, that's an example discussed elsewhere.)