Jeff Albertson
Explorer
Oh, and no one enjoys how Boba died, made the story, which is what we're doing here, less fun.
Or the DM can make sure no one is let down. Nip the argument in the bud: always say you never fudge, and do it anyway if you want.
Well...it would certainly be diminished, wouldn't it? There's an obvious analogy here with, um, human relations and the possibility of one participant, um, faking in order to produce what, in their view, would be a better experience. No one likes a faker.
Or the DM can make sure no one is let down. Nip the argument in the bud: always say you never fudge, and do it anyway if you want.
Gah. I did some moderation here earlier, and that would normally mean I step out of the discussion. But, I have a point to make that doesn't really fit either side, so I hope I won't cheese anyone off too much.
It is very true that relationships should not be built on a bed of lies. I'm sorry, SirAntoine, but the fundamental dishonesty there is problematic for any long-term arrangement.
However, to Greg's note.... faking it *occasionally* is not necessarily a sin, and can in fact be healthy. This is because failing to do so makes perfect the enemy of good, and can leave you in the situation where an experience that was Great for A, and OK, but not perfect, for B, becomes a really bad experience for both through trying too hard. My understanding is that human social mores are not based on so called "radical honesty", and that our relationships tend to break down if we do not include a buffer for polite fictions. Greg says nobody likes a faker - but the truth is that nobody likes a stream of unvarnished truth, either.
This is where I get my approach - fundamental honesty overall, that lays the groundwork for the polite fiction of the moment.
And if someone doesn't agree with where you want polite fictions... don't play with them. That's okay. We don't all have to like the same things.
I would, and I have. Of course the situation varies on the experience of the PCs and the type of game they are expecting. I have done so in the Adventurers League for Tier 1 adventures where the players are new when the fight turns against them solely (IMO) because of really bad luck. In one situation, I rolled three natural 20s in a single round (there were quite a few enemies, but it was enough to take two PCs down). One PC died in that fight, but I felt it was unnecessary to potentially TPK the party which consisted of mostly new players, so I massaged the hp down a bit. I allowed enemies to go down if they fell to 1-5 hp. It seemed that one PC death was a powerful enough reminder of PC mortality, and I did not want to seem a mean-spirited DM to mostly new players.As the title asks: it's the middle of an encounter, would you change a monster's hit points?
This might be during a boss fight where the PCs roll well and it looks like the big bad is going to die before taking a turn. Or maybe during a long fight that looks like it might drag. Or perhaps a tense fight where the party is toeing on a TPK.
Would you?
I have no idea how other groups are organized but I play with friends. I respect my friends and try and treat them better than that.
Gah. I did some moderation here earlier, and that would normally mean I step out of the discussion. But, I have a point to make that doesn't really fit either side, so I hope I won't cheese anyone off too much.
It is very true that relationships should not be built on a bed of lies. I'm sorry, SirAntoine, but the fundamental dishonesty there is problematic for any long-term arrangement.
However, to Greg's note.... faking it *occasionally* is not necessarily a sin, and can in fact be healthy. This is because failing to do so makes perfect the enemy of good, and can leave you in the situation where an experience that was Great for A, and OK, but not perfect, for B, becomes a really bad experience for both through trying too hard. My understanding is that human social mores are not based on so called "radical honesty", and that our relationships tend to break down if we do not include a buffer for polite fictions. Greg says nobody likes a faker - but the truth is that nobody likes a stream of unvarnished truth, either.
This is where I get my approach - fundamental honesty overall, that lays the groundwork for the polite fiction of the moment.
And if someone doesn't agree with where you want polite fictions... don't play with them. That's okay. We don't all have to like the same things.
Now you are the blowing it out of proportion, good sir. I said nothing of building a relationship on a bed of lies.
It is curious you make exceptions for lying in other circumstances.
I don't even fudge myself, I just want to stop people from calling it cheating and get them to accept that it's the right way to play the game for anyone who wants to.
Not letting them down is treating them badly?! It should be re-assuring to a player with objections to it. The DM who says he never does it isn't likely to do it very often, now is he? It becomes important to him to keep the illusion going.