Wicht
Hero
Well, I do in all honesty, hope people love their spouses more than the game. People are far more important than games.Idk... I am not sure I can equate a game with a spouse. That's really two different things on different scales of importance. I see where you are coming from though.

But its a good analogy for a thing with an emotional investment.
I am just not attached to these games or hobbies to the point to take other peoples opinions about games and the hobby personally. Sure I am passionate about what I find fun... I can also see both sides of whatever is being discussed and even if I have a harshly negative opinion about something in a game I will always acknowledge that I think its cool that others like what I don't like and I always admire people who get great enjoyment from it.
That sounds like a very healthy perspective.

But if my words are "AD&D 2e is a bad game because (insert reasons here)"... Is not the same thing as saying " the people who play it (insert negative words here)". Its two very different statements. One is a commentary on the game itself separate from anything else and the second is a direct attack on the person.
Unfortunately, a lot of people blend the two into one when their passions take over.
Again, emotional attachments are tricky things. One should tread carefully in assessing how one's words might be received.
But also, in the case in point, people's attitudes were directly criticized, so its a moot point. That line was crossed.
Be a penguin... Let other people's opinions be like water and let them be water sliding off your back so they don't stick to you.
I don't care about the opinions (well, I do, but in a genial way). Rudeness, and things like it, is what annoys me. People should play what they like and recognize that others are doing the same and its ok not to all like the same things.
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