It feels like this is going to be a difference in kind vs. difference in degree discussion that 1/3 or so of the thread participants will be unhappy with at any given time...Okay, let's compare to something in 5e -- an attack declaration. The player declares an attempt to hit an orc with their sword. Is the player authoring into the fiction that the orc was struck by their sword if they get a success on the attack roll? Compare to Spout Lore.
If a person is driving down a road, what power does that person IRL have over whether there is a car ahead of of them? Do they have some control over how they pass a car that is ahead of them? It feels like kind to me IRL. Whether that should apply in a game seems a matter of taste.