I really would not be. Wizards is both held to and holds itself to standards that no small designer ever could, would, or should be held to. They are part of Hasbro which is a multi-billion dollar company. Their concerns are fundamentally different from anyone else in gaming.
There are many rpgs created by single creators that are highly successful, and don't try to hold themselves to the Wizards standards. They do make a huge variety of games that have things in them that people approve of or not. The key is to be a decent person, and be true to your intended audience. If they like it, what do the opinions of anyone else matter? I'm not saying that you should try and be an "edgelord," but your game can be itself. As I've learned from recent threads, there are fan made Mystara or Dark Sun games that exist and are just fine chugging along. People who are interested in them are playing them and seem pretty happy. If that's what you're trying to do, I suspect you'll be just fine.