Baron Opal II
Legend
I can only think of two times someone was randomly or intentionally being a jerk at my house (which is the only place I game anymore). The disruption was minor enough to be ignored at the time. They were not invited back and informed why at a later point. This wasn't for a game but a different social situation.I agree with this one, as it's much the same as I don't allow smoking in my house.
I do thank you for your answer, but do you have an example of one with no "medical part". Where someone is just doing something "because".
For me, it is because I asked ahead of time and was not informed. If you tell me ahead of time you can't handle the smell of lemons, there won't be a lemon flavored dish. If you mention it after the fact, well, the meal is already prepared. We'll make something for you, but if the aroma is too much for you I have a nice porch where you can eat. It's all in the timing.But wait, you put it on the person with food allergies / preferences? Odd, no one liked that when I typed it. And why would it not be as nice?
Mostly I ask everyone to bring their own meal/take care of their own food requirements. But If I am having a group come over, and one person makes the demand that no one eat any eat, I'm not going to call up each person and forward on that demand. If that one person wants to call everyone and ask, I'm fine with that. I don't even consider unreasonable requests, so I will do what I want.
If someone told me "no one else can do [X] while I'm there", it would greatly depend on what [X] was. Is it a serious allergy or medical thing? I would consider it. If it is a dietary or behavior preference, they may be better served in a different game. I will listen, but I am highly unlikely to inconvenience others for a single person's accommodation. If you wish to smoke, you can do so outside. If you are a militant vegetarian, keep it to yourself and enjoy the non-meat option I prepared for you. Do not give other people grief about their dietary preferences. We are going to enjoy some wine with our dinner. If you don't want any, there are other soft beverages that I have available. If you are adverse, let me know ahead of time and I will make sure there are other more palatable options. If this is going to cause you to lose your AA coin, then you might be better served with a different game.
For me, gaming is a time with friends well spent. We adventure, consume good food, and socialize at my home. It is important to me that those who are guests in my house are well accommodated. But, you do not get to inconvenience, belittle, or snipe at my other guests.