Big stretch, we both know there are plenty of NPCs/monster "versions" of PC races and classes that possess totally different capabilities to PC ones in pretty much every edition.
Fundamentally D&D is asymmetrical, and weasel words and phrases like "recognizable" and "you can accomplish that" aren't going to change that, they just serve to illustrate that it is. D&D just isn't very focused on the point of concern you have here, whereas other games are. That tells me either you don't actually care about that point very much, or have separate reasons for choosing D&D (or similar) that are more compelling still than that point.
You have to be joking. "I don't think The Hobbit really counts as Tolkien" is pretty next level. Special pleading of the most extreme and unconvincing kind, which I don't believe even you believe lol.