I mean at least that's what your group does. I'm running a game for my step daughter, she's 9. She wanted to learn. Lol I've never DMed a gane just played. So I wanted to make sure the rules are right..for the most part.
I can't find a group anywhere unfortunately the person who dms is doing...
I'd have to say it is the DM's job to set the tone, but make it fun, not intentionally kill you. I do have a question about magic missile. I know it always hits or guaranteed to do damage. It's 1D4+1 force damage. I get that part but it says it's three missiles at one or up to three tgts. So...