The real question is, why do we have classes? Are they strick bound character and RP rules? I guess not. To me classes are there so that I can build the character in my mind. The things that he should be capable of to work with the DnD rules (or whatever system you are playing).
Only exception...
Hi and welcome to my first build post here. I like to theorize in games and 3.5 is one of my long time favorites. I've been active on other dnd boards and now somehow landed here^^. Now lets get to the build:
We are going to build a Glaivelock focusing on the max amount of damage possible...
If that is what you want, maybe you wanna try some different approaches:
a) dip monk1 and go for Sacred Fist prc. It progresses unarmed strike with a divine 8/10 spell progression. You get Wis to AC and can fight unarmed and have your bad touch feeling^^.
other way would be to convince the DM...