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They are both presented as safety tools. They both try to find a way for people reacting badly to a scene to no longer be exposed to it...

In the case of open door policy, that's the same tool.

Sure, but to take your analogy to its end, people might not want to say "I am allergic to peanuts" unless they need to. Well, they might...

Sure. If the players couldn't express "Could you change this detail that reduces our enjoyment of the game or that just doesn't make...

Its goal is to make players speak about problems beforehand. Extending the use from "discussing safety" to "discussing everything that...

Why not? If you're really not having fun because, say, the module is silly and you explore and the map can't make physical sense without...

Oof. Yeah, I think the X card is useful but these are the kind of nightmare circumstances where safety tool or not, I’d be saying “oh...

If what we're discussing here is helping avoiding topics that can push personal, and sometime intimate buttons you might not have...

Put simply: people like to think of themselves as the exception. "Sure, Orcus murders 99% of his worshipers, but I am part of the 1%...

Proponents of safety tools mentions that even in low stakes adventures, if you're playing with complete random strangers, you can hit a...

I don't consider RPGs to be an intimate form of play. Not any more intimate than most other social activities.

I remember this tool! It was notably used in 753 BC by Romulus who booted Remus out of his homebrew Kingmaker LARP. Sorry about the sad...

This conversation reminds me of an older safety tool - deciding not to play with someone again. That only came up once for me. I was...

A breakthrough? Before 2013, I assumed most groups were like mine and used verbal communication tools successfully when ill at ease like...