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touc replied to the thread D&D General What do you say when someone is thinking of quitting your game?.We do hang out outside of D&D, maybe once every 2 months (we get our spouses together and do lunch). I don't think we want to lose that... -
touc reacted to Ruin Explorer's post in the thread D&D General What do you say when someone is thinking of quitting your game? with
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Yeah I think that's about all you can say without knowing why they're quitting on a deeper level. My personal experience is that things... -
touc reacted to EzekielRaiden's post in the thread D&D General What do you say when someone is thinking of quitting your game? with Like.
If relevant, I ask them what is inspiring this decision. Sometimes, it's not having the spoons anymore. Sometimes, it's a matter of...
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touc replied to the thread D&D General What do you say when someone is thinking of quitting your game?.Good points. It's reactive but also narcissistic for me to think "what did I do wrong" versus "hate to see you go but you're welcome...
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touc reacted to not-so-newguy's post in the thread D&D General What do you say when someone is thinking of quitting your game? with Like.
Even if this person is a close friend, I'd resist asking for a reason. Chances are that they're not even certain of the reason. There...
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touc reacted to TheSword's post in the thread D&D General What do you say when someone is thinking of quitting your game? with Like.
it is a Huuuuuuge commitment to game 3/4 sundays that can affect relationships, other hobbies, life balance etc. I really wouldn’t take...
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touc reacted to AlViking's post in the thread D&D General What do you say when someone is thinking of quitting your game? with Like.
As the others said, wish them luck and let them know that they're always welcome back. Maybe organize a random game day now and then if...
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touc reacted to Distracted DM's post in the thread D&D General What do you say when someone is thinking of quitting your game? with Like.
"It sucks, but you gotta do you! You're always welcome back of course!" Priorities change. It's like any other circumstance where a...
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touc reacted to GrimCo's post in the thread D&D General What do you say when someone is thinking of quitting your game? with Like.
Over last 16 years of playing with this group, almost every one of us had period when he stopped playing for some time. Be it plain...
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touc reacted to Scribe's post in the thread D&D General What do you say when someone is thinking of quitting your game? with Like.
I mean thats a great run, thats a long time to be doing anything and it doesnt seem like its due to any personal issues or animosity...
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touc reacted to Misanthrope Prime's post in the thread D&D General What do you say when someone is thinking of quitting your game? with Like.
"Fool! I'd like to see you quit my MIND MAZE! Muahahahah!" Of course then you need the ability to actually trap him in a psionic maze...
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touc reacted to Doc_Klueless's post in the thread D&D General What do you say when someone is thinking of quitting your game? with Like.
Wish him the best and let him know there is always a chair for him at your table. For many people, hobbies have an expiration date...
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touc reacted to overgeeked's post in the thread D&D General What do you say when someone is thinking of quitting your game? with Like.
“Thanks for the head’s up. I’ve had a lot of fun with you at the table so I hate to see you go. If there’s anything I can do to make...
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touc reacted to Ulorian - Agent of Chaos's post in the thread D&D General What do you say when someone is thinking of quitting your game? with Like.
I'd say something like, 'I'm sorry to see you go! Whether the game was to your liking or not, or if there is something else going on in...
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touc posted the thread D&D General What do you say when someone is thinking of quitting your game? in *Dungeons & Dragons.I just got a private message from a friend and gamer at my table that he's stepping away from our D&D/RPGs. It makes me sad to hear...