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Thanks guys. I might be without the use of a computer for a while, other than my computer at work. I'm 99% sure anything like this would be blocked, and even ifit weren't, the computers are so slow the lag would be unbearable. I'll keep this in mind for the day that I do start using a PC...

I don't know ANYTHING about these things. I just want a good system with good Sci-Fi and Fantasy RPGs. I used to be a big fan of the following computer RPGs: Planescape: Torment Baldur's Gate I & II (and ToB) IceWind Dale I & II Star Wars: KotOR Final Fantasy VII Diablo I & II I also used to...

Well guys, I really want to thank you for all the kind words and advice. She's refused to see a therapist with me, everything is my fault, and she's done absolutely nothing wrong. I'll spare all the details, but I don't think it'll work. I've been staying and sleeping at my job for the past...

Well, we're trying to work it out. We have good days and bad days. She actually cracked a little bit and agreed to see a therapist with me, it's now just a matter of finding one who's on my plan and getting a time where we can both make it. Thanks again everybody.

I know that I have plenty of faults as well, and it's interesting to see things in the worst possible light. It does make me feel a bit uncomfortable, but that's actually a good thing. Thank you. I know I need to face my own demons, and I know I can't change her. I just wish things were...

Again, thanks to all of your input and advice, everybody. I have a pretty good support system, if I ever call on it. I am usually too ashamed or embarassed to admit that anything is wrong. My Wife has nobody. Both parents passed long before I met her, she has an estranged brother, and a very...

My computer is running REALLY slow, and it always sounds like there's a program running in the background (the harddrive is 'whirring', but i can't ever find it. When i open FireFox, there's always script issues and FireFox freezes. When I reboot FF, it works again. Please help!! Also, what...

How would you approach her to suggest she get some counseling? Everything I've tried has failed. BTW, sorry for misleading, I actually live in NJ. The "Shermer, Illinois" was a joke, and now it's a very old joke (it's been a long time since I was active on these forums). Update made. :) I...

I agree. You're completely right. The only solution I see is making it a happy marriage. Which seems impossible.

A few weeks ago, I had resigned myself to us getting a divorce. After attending the ren faire (see a few posts down), I decided to do everything I can to save this marriage. I would still like to think I'm in that mindset. When I was at the Ren Faire, I caught up with the guy who was my best...

Right now, my plan is to just stay away and hope that she misses me enough to call and try to work things out. I'm too angry to go back and talk with her now, and she's locked me out of the condo anyway.

But what do I say to the guy now? How much would this cost me? Already do, my man.

She's definitely angry, and says it's about me, but when I ask her directly, it's either something minute that doesn't warrant that level of animosity, or it's something irrational. Maybe she resents not being at work, but when she was working, she'd always be complaining about the job. We...

She believes that I will manipulate the counselor and come out smelling like roses, "just like he did on that episode of Everybody Loves Raymond" That's the problem, over the years, we've grown more and more distant from friends. Now that she's home with the baby all the time, she has even less...

Thanks guys. While my Wife and I have never had a perfect marriage (I know there's no such thing), we always did bicker more than most. Definitely a lot more than my parents did growing up. as much as I try to deny it, when I go home, I'm miserable around my wife. I hope things change. I...

Nah, missed them. I'm really wondering why they got rid of that torture chamber though.

I'd really love any advice from anybody who has considered, or who has been through a similar situation as mine. I'm not going to base my decision on a discussion on a message board, but I will probably feel better after venting, and any outside voice will be a welcome one. Here's the...

Where is this? The one I went to was in Sterling Forest, Tuxedo, NY. I just want to be clear that these are two different places.

First time I went in a few years. The good: They had this dude called the "chime master" or something playing a bunch of bells, which sounds corny, but looked and sounded really cool. I bought my buddy a discounted ticket, so he bought me beer all day.It really tired out my one year old, which...