***** Are all of your posts negatives about 3.5? I've only quickly browsed the board, but all I've seen from you were complaints. Just curious. Also, all of this is based on your opinion, or how you think a class should be.
Now, as to ambidexterity...you gave the reason why the feat was removed....the prerequisites are high dexterity. You can then assume that a character with high dexterity already has some measure of ambidexterity.
Then there is to consider whether being ambidexteritous really should impact your ability to fight with two weapons. Obviously, it takes more than just swinging away with two weapons to be a good fighter with that style. Especially when the type of weapons has absolutely no impact on the to hit rolls. I would think someone with two clubs would hit easier and more effectively than someone with two swords, given that neither had training on how to fight with two weapons.
Thus, who's to day that being able to use one had as well as the other, would have a positive impact on the knowledge of how to fight with two weapons.
thus, its much easier to explain it in a single feat of FTW. That person has the ability/training to use two weapons simultaneously.
Also, I don't see you addressing the penalties of the rules in the first place. Why is it -6/-10 when fighting with two weapons? Is that fair?
My take on that is the the penalties have to be great enough to detract most people from trying it. Otherwise, everyone would take advantage of using two weapons.
So then the designers have to decide what does it take to allow someone to fight in that manner. Even with the feat, they still have a -4/-4 unless using a light weapon in the off hand. Thats still a decent deterent. The light weapon bonus allows them to control the damage output of two weapons.
I see it as very well balanced. A character with high dexterity will be able to train with two weapons at the cost of a single feat. They can then minimize the penalties by restricting themselves to a light weapon in the off hand.
The benefits of ambidexterty were mainly for those who wanted to fight with two weapons. Yes, there were instances where it was helpful or characterful in other capacities, but that was by far the minority. I don't see a reason though why it had to be tied to two weapon fighting.
And by all means, you can continue to play with requiring ambidexterity to lower your penalties. Its not like anyone is forcing you to use 3.5 in the first place.
***** Brother Glacius