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<blockquote data-quote="Alana" data-source="post: 3428666" data-attributes="member: 39734">Alright... after reading this thread, and some of the others, I will say what my overall opinion is. This is not meant as a flame, nor an insult, nor an attack, it is simply what I gather from what I've observed.It seems to me, that someone like to only listen to the advice/support of those who agree with their ideas. If the advice being offered isn't synonymous with what the player asking for the advice wants to hear, then this player simply ignores the advice, or laughs it off rather harshly.This isn't only restricted to the player this is vaguely aimed at; well all do this at one point or another, but it's the bigger people who keep an open mind about what they're asking advice on, who will actually learn and grow from the advice being solicited, whether they agree with it or not. If you're not going to at least listen and think about advice, information, or opinions, no matter whether the jive with what you yourself believe, that you yourself asked for, then there's really no point in aking for it in the first place, unless you can keep an open mind.&nbsp; You just have accept that just because someone says something that isn't entirely positive and praising when they're giving their advice or opinion, doesn't meanthat they're being malicious. It's called 'constructive criticism'. If you can't take it, I don't suggest taking a college art class of any kind, since your instructors and peers will pick out the faults and flaws of something you put your skill and pride into, not to be malicious, but to help you learn and grow from your mistakes.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Alana, post: 3428666, member: 39734"] Alright... after reading this thread, and some of the others, I will say what my overall opinion is. This is not meant as a flame, nor an insult, nor an attack, it is simply what I gather from what I've observed. It seems to me, that someone like to only listen to the advice/support of those who agree with their ideas. If the advice being offered isn't synonymous with what the player asking for the advice wants to hear, then this player simply ignores the advice, or laughs it off rather harshly. This isn't only restricted to the player this is vaguely aimed at; well all do this at one point or another, but it's the bigger people who keep an open mind about what they're asking advice on, who will actually learn and grow from the advice being solicited, whether they agree with it or not. If you're not going to at least listen and think about advice, information, or opinions, no matter whether the jive with what you yourself believe, that you yourself asked for, then there's really no point in aking for it in the first place, unless you can keep an open mind. You just have accept that just because someone says something that isn't entirely positive and praising when they're giving their advice or opinion, doesn't meanthat they're being malicious. It's called 'constructive criticism'. If you can't take it, I don't suggest taking a college art class of any kind, since your instructors and peers will pick out the faults and flaws of something you put your skill and pride into, not to be malicious, but to help you learn and grow from your mistakes. [/QUOTE]

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