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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Djeta Thernadier" data-source="post: 2169693" data-attributes="member: 12043">It's a good thing you & I found each other hon because I would slap any man who wouldn't tolerate my hobbies. Any of them. Here's a chick's perspective on this  <img src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f609.png" class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" width="64" height="64" alt=";)" title="Wink    ;)"  data-smilie="2"data-shortname=";)" />  and I think I speak for my many of my fellow females when I say...I don't understand why people put up with this kind of thing either. Generally, people don't just "come out" as detesting something you really enjoy after 10 years of marriage. Usually, they make it known that they hate it pretty quickly. Not even just gaming but anything. Why be with someone who doesn't love you for you? Why be with someone who wants to you change? Why put up with someone who TELLS YOU what you can and can not do? I'm 28 years old and if any man tried to tell me I had to stop gaming (or anything else I loved to do) to be with him, marry him, have kids with him,  I'd hand him his hat and coat and politely tell him I hoped he'd find someone who was more suitable for him.There are plenty of people out there looking for a companion. Plenty of them will have stuff in common with you. Find someone who does and don't settle down with someone who won't "allow" you to have fun once in a while.Um, No. REAL love is accepting your partner for who he or she is.</blockquote>

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