"Best not to speak of her dishonour, lest it be recalled and thus intensified. Better to let it fade from memory, as she will have paid her zij," Sashal suggests.
"Surely you must have vhal? Those without vhal are reprehensible and will do anything, no matter how foul or terrible, and they do not care because they have no farther to fall. A person's vhal is an indication of their virtue and dignity."