It's the same thing. I don't want homework or to be treated like a statistic. Talk to me. Engage me in conversation about gaming. Have a session where instead of playing, you get together and talk about this stuff. But don't give me a form to fill out.
Well, that's just a question of format. There's more than one way to do a survey.
When I started my current group, I made up a set of questions I wanted to know the answers to, and questions I wanted to see how they answered (which is not quite the same thing). For the majority of the group, I had in-person conversations, in which I covered the questions. For a couple, I had a conversation by e-mail.
I didn't hand out a multiple-choice questionnaire - I took my survey in a more dynamic way. But, it was still a survey.