You don't need a special rule for Somatic. If a spell has both Somatic and Material components, the hand manipulating the Material components or focus can also perform the Somatic component. That's already a rule.
Regarding wind instruments: Nothing says that the Verbal component must be performed exactly simultaneously with the other components. Maybe you toot your horn and then say the magic word, or vice-versa. Furthermore, the section on Verbal talks about requiring "the particular combination of sounds, with specific pitch and resonance." So there's no reason the sound has to be produced by the mouth of a living creature. It's possible that when you cast using a flute, the sounds required are those produced by the flute. That interpretation is a bit more of a stretch, but it's consistent with the bard's story elements and not unbalanced, so I don't think it requires a formal house rule.
Regarding wind instruments: Nothing says that the Verbal component must be performed exactly simultaneously with the other components. Maybe you toot your horn and then say the magic word, or vice-versa. Furthermore, the section on Verbal talks about requiring "the particular combination of sounds, with specific pitch and resonance." So there's no reason the sound has to be produced by the mouth of a living creature. It's possible that when you cast using a flute, the sounds required are those produced by the flute. That interpretation is a bit more of a stretch, but it's consistent with the bard's story elements and not unbalanced, so I don't think it requires a formal house rule.