Man, the real question would be which ones am I not using. Smaller list.
I'm GMing a Scarred Lands campaign and players pretty much have access to most books since I get a lot as a reviewer and buy a lot on my own. AEG and Mongoose aren't on any the regular list I'm on but I do get some AEG stuff for Campaign and Games Unplugged.
I've used a lot of Monte's stuff, lots of Scarred Lands, Bluffside and Freeport, Librum Equitis I & II, Secret College, etc...
Of course official D&D books always have their place ala Psionics Handbook, Manual of the Planes, F&A, D&D, etc..