If you're playing a Dwarven tank and have access to the Races of Stone sourcebook, I can hardly see passing up the Deepwarden class. It's second level ability is golden for any high-con, melee build. The "typical" entry is Ranger 3/Fighter 2. However, you can easily pull off a Ranger 3/Paladin 2 prefix. Of course, if you're not allowed to use RoS, than this is a rather moot point.
Thematically, I strongly prefer the Goad feat. It is the quintessential "tank" feat, IMO, allowing you to control who the opposition targets, keeping them away from your more frail companions. It's unfortunate that it hasn't worked well in my experience. The save is typically easy to make, unless you're playing a Charisma focused build.
Either way...just my 2 cp
Thematically, I strongly prefer the Goad feat. It is the quintessential "tank" feat, IMO, allowing you to control who the opposition targets, keeping them away from your more frail companions. It's unfortunate that it hasn't worked well in my experience. The save is typically easy to make, unless you're playing a Charisma focused build.
Either way...just my 2 cp