Can I ask why people do this?

This thread reminds me of something. VBulletin currently has a feature called "Similar Threads" which lists similar threads to the one you're viewing automatically. Nutkinland has it turned on but it's currently turned off here because it increases query times significantly and would slow the server down. When the new server is set up though maybe we should look into turning the feature on??
 

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Sheesh. Am I the only person who watched Pleasantville?
Sometimes occasional unpleasantness is a side effect of a valuable form of conflict, and if you try to eliminate unpleasantness, you end up with a bland and worthless world.
 

Wrath of the Swarm said:
Obviously your suggestion has a few problems.
Name one.

I assume you're attempting to demonstrate irony, perhaps because you believe that I've said something to the effect that irony is impossible in written communication. I in fact said no such thing. I said that we (that being folks posting on ENWorld) should always give our fellow posters the benefit of the doubt and do our best to avoid being insulted by the presumed tone of their comments.

Your ability to overstate a position so dramatically does not justify claims of insult based on tone, at least not in normal posting conversation. My point is that when we feel that the tone of somebody's post is insulting, we owe it to our fellow posters to reconsider that insult and try to respond to the content of the post, rather than the insult we assume is contained within. Posting is a medium too fraught with inaccuracies to do otherwise.

If we (or at least a majority of us) each follow this practice (as I think most people here do), ENWorld will continue to be a pleasant and useful place to exchange ideas, points of view and resources on d20-related matters. You're free to behave otherwise, of course, within the limits imposed by the mods. And indeed, if you think your method (whatever it may be) is more likely to enhance the pleasantness and usefulness of ENWorld, put it forward and let's examine it.

I'm not saying that insult via tone is impossible. I'm saying that when we feel insulted, it is our obligation as good citizens of ENWorld to consider that perhaps the insult is contained in our interpretation, and not in the actual fact of the post itself.
 

The Voice of Reason said:
If you try to eliminate unpleasantness, you end up with a bland and worthless world.
And if you fail to control unpleasantness, you end up with a bland and worthless world. The goal is to strike a balance that maximises the exchange of conflicting ideas. That's why we have moderators and Eric's Grandma. Rules of conduct make it possible for groups of people to conflict in useful ways.

Now you might feel that the rules here are weighted too far to one side or another, and that's fair enough. But without some kind of rules, you're back to bland and worthless, right?

If you think particular rules here are limiting usefulness, offer suggestions. I promise you people listen to them. Yes, even to The Voice of Reason. :D
 

barsoomcore said:
Name one.

He can't. He's been banned for a variety of reasons. Voice of Reason can't respond, either; it's the same person trying to sneak back in. You know, when someone asks you to leave a party, it's kind of tacky to try and sneak back through the window.

Sorry to create a one-sided discussion, though.
 

Piratecat said:
Sorry to create a one-sided discussion, though.

Well, you could look for volunteers to take up his position (or rather, something similar to his apparent position).

(See? Helpful! :D )
 



Dude, sign up for a NKL account. If P-Kitty has kicked you twice, there's probably a reason. Meanwhile, over at NKL it's fairly rare to be banned - though getting flamed and derided is a very real possibility if you deserve it >:)
 

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