You have a very valid point. We have to keep in mind that children are just that, children. And sometimes genetic indicators play a huge factor in the way we are built. We give it credence when it comes to cancer or heart disease...we should also consider it here. I think neglect is an extreme term. Most of us do things that are dangerous at some point. Speeding, participating in hobbies such as white water rafting...(I'm experienced and still almost drown a few weeks ago). Technically, if we want to be so specific, taking any chance that could leave our kids orphans could be neglect. I don't think labels will solve anything. More education and less giving the reins of control over to children who aren't ready to make decisions about their well being would probably be a better step.