Coaxing the new player to the table

[SnowleopardVK]

His point is that sometimes people (and especially gamer-geeks) can come on pretty strong when someone shows interest in their hobby. It's easy to scare them off with an over-abundance of enthusiasm. And when the people are guys and the someone's a girl, the excess enthusiasm might be mistaken for other motivations.

Ah. Well, I'm a girl as is most of my group. The only guy player is already dating one of the others. So not sure if that applies.

(And I also already have a girlfriend too for that matter. She is aware of that.)