Collectivism in Gaming

[DammitVictor]

I can't imagine my not eating when they did made anyone in my group uncomfortable.

It wouldn't be as bad if you didn't want to eat. If you'd had dinner before sitting down with me, that would quiet that nagging voice enough that I could ignore it. I would still prefer that you were fed, but not so much that I'd want you to eat if you really didn't want to.

But that's an entirely different story.

 

[FormerlyHemlock]

For more than a decade my face to face group has met at seven in the evening. I normally have dinner before seven so I arrive shortly after having eaten a full meal. Others normally have dinner after seven and have ordered or brought food to eat dinner at the game.

I can't imagine my not eating when they did made anyone in my group uncomfortable.

FWIW, I couldn't imagine being comfortable with the situation until I read your post. Now I can imagine it. Thank you for helping my imagination expand a little.