So, Planescape can absorb things, but you can't?
Have you guys completely ignored Paizo? Necromancer games? They, it seems, hate the fluff decisions. And will be re-designing the fluff asap.
Seriously, just wait a month or two and you'll have all your 'generic and bland abilities' and 3e Wheel Cosmology and the Blood War right back where it was, like they promised.
I just don't see it. I mean, in my games I don't use alignment. And yet I manage. Despite how everything depends on alignment, from spells to asking you straight up, I just don't bother with it. I hate the core races with the intensity of a thousand suns. And I manage. I hate playing in generic pre-disposed core games where alignment and all the core races are present. I have no empathy for "Well it's just being pushed on me".
So, sorry you don't like it. Welcome to the party.