I know this is a + thread, but I think this might be a "you" problem. You've read literature that simply isn't associated with how people play DnD paladins and now your conflating the two as one and the same.
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So, what you are saying is, "I know this is a + thread, in which being on board with the base topic is required, but I'm not going to do that, and will just say you are wrong."
Which, you know, is kind of a crummy way to treat someone. You could have at least tried to work this into the basic thesis, but you don't seem to have done that.
you are reading too much into problem that isn't there.
You too. Crummy way to treat someone.
Both of you are done in this discussion.