Charlaquin
Goblin Queen (She/Her/Hers)
That seems like semantics to me.I don't doubt that history could have produced far, far worse. It's a shame because your:
... is so close to my preference that action declarations include both a goal and an approach. Is having this as a preference better than having it as an expectation? That's what I believe.
Nor has anyone here done so. Yes, I used the term “better” casually. I do think that creating that expectation would be more successful in the goal of eliminating ambiguity between the player’s goal and the DM’s assumptions. Whether that’s “better” or “worse” for your table depends on your goals. Since the OP later expressed wanting to preserve the opportunity to be surprised by a player’s action being different than they thought it was, I think that technique would actually be worse for what they’re trying to achieve, which I did acknowledge.But I won't evangelize the "technique" or variously push it as better as various contributors here have done.
I definitely think the pushback has been massively disproportionate.My advice here is, if you have a goal, consider your approach, else others will be justified with push back and reaction.