I think reveal had a very good original point - the show just isn't grabbing him like he thought it would. If I were in the same situation I would probably be asking the same question. Where the thread's gone awry is the opportunistic bashing that inevitably gets attached to conversations like this.
I think the argument for watching more than just pilot has been well argued, so I'll just leave it at that. It tooks three eps for me to 'get it' as well, and I was just dying to love it.
I understand wanting to shy away from rabid fan-boy/girl shows simply because people don't like the hard sell. I had the same resistance to Buffy/Angel/BSG/Wonderfalls/Veronica Mars/etc - you just don't like feeling forced into something. But c'mon, we're not talking about guns to the head. People are often crazy in love with something for a reason, not because they're simply retarded. Since finding out that the rabid fans are usually onto something remarkable, my policy has now become, "Try it out, give it a fair shot." If I don't like a show after a half-dozen eps then I probably never will, but in most cases I'm really very impressed. I'm honestly much happier with the time I've spent watching television because of it.